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In new memoir, Tom Selleck looks back at the hard years that made him a star in 91ƵMagnum, P.I.91Ƶ

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FILE - Actor Tom Selleck arrives at the 15th Annual Entertainment Industry Foundation Revlon Run/Walk For Women in Los Angeles on Saturday, May 10, 2008. (AP Photo/Dan Steinberg, File)

starts his memoir in the middle of a car crash. He is 17 and in the passenger seat when he and two friends go airborne in his mom91Ƶs red Chevy Corvair, tumbling off Mulholland Drive in Los Angeles. Everyone would be eventually fine, but it91Ƶs a harrowing moment and a unique way to kick off a look back.

91ƵThat91Ƶs an unusual way to start,91Ƶ the 91ƵMagnum, P.I.91Ƶ and 91ƵBlue Bloods91Ƶ star admits in an interview. 91ƵIt seemed like the perfect way to go back a little bit and talk about my upbringing through the bad accident and the ramifications.91Ƶ

91ƵYou Never Know91Ƶ takes readers through Selleck91Ƶs years at the University of Southern California, in the Army, being bachelor No. 2 on 91ƵThe Dating Game91Ƶ and small roles and commercials before earning an Emmy and lasting fame as Thomas Magnum.

91ƵI didn91Ƶt have one of those headline-grabbing lives,91Ƶ the 79-year-old actor tells The Associated Press. 91ƵThe only way I could make the book entertaining 91Ƶ and I think my primary job and goal in this book is to entertain 91Ƶ was to get into these stories in a way that the reader got inside my head.91Ƶ

Selleck spent four years writing the book longhand on yellow legal pads, quoting from George Will and Raymond Chandler along the way. He would write in the afternoon and read what he91Ƶd written to his wife at dinner.

The self-portrait that emerges is of an actor who put his head down and worked at his craft 91Ƶ he did six unsold pilots and his first big movie was in the unfortunate 91ƵDaughters of Satan91Ƶ 91Ƶ until hitting the big time in his mid-30s.

91ƵIf Selleck has one thing to sell its authenticity,91Ƶ says 91ƵHe is a guy who knows who he is. He has managed to make a very successful career in a rough business over many decades by finding a way to be himself.91Ƶ

Selleck says he had no intentions of writing a tell-all or sharing salacious details of his life, though he does reveal details about his secret marriage to his second wife, Jillie Mack, who he first spotted onstage in 91ƵCats.91Ƶ (Yes, he fell in love with Rumpleteazer.)

91ƵThere91Ƶs plenty of stuff I have not talked, about and there91Ƶs plenty of stuff that everybody else has talked about and it isn91Ƶt really accurate,91Ƶ he says.

Readers will learn that Selleck 91Ƶ known for his 6-foot-4 matinee-idol looks and build, sense of humor and effortless style 91Ƶ was often racked by insecurity and doubts, writing, 91ƵThat critic on your shoulder is a formidable opponent.91Ƶ

91ƵI wanted to speak the language of our business to young actors,91Ƶ he says. 91ƵIt91Ƶs not an easy road. The product you91Ƶre selling 91Ƶ when somebody says no, which is 99% of the time 91Ƶ is you.91Ƶ

Famously, his shooting schedule for 91ƵMagnum, P.I.91Ƶ forced him to decline an offer to play Indiana Jones in 91ƵRaiders of the Lost Ark,91Ƶ a part which went to A Hollywood strike actually made it possible to do both, but Selleck is at peace, writing 91Ƶmy only regret was that the what-if was there from time to time.91Ƶ

The role of Magnum 91Ƶ a Vietnam war veteran-turned easygoing detective who zipped around Hawaii in a red Ferrari 91Ƶ aired from 1980-1988.

Selleck earned an Emmy in 1984 for the episode 91ƵHome from the Sea,91Ƶ in which Magnum treads water alone in the Pacific Ocean until he is rescued, talking to figures in his past. 91ƵI made it, Dad. Why didn91Ƶt you?,91Ƶ the character deliriously asks his father, who was shot down over Korea in 1951. He was thrust into hosting the Emmys on the year he won one.

91ƵA part of me was still in host mode. I grabbed my Emmy and ran across the stage to my host podium. I put down my Emmy and looked out at the applauding audience for the first time. When I did, I gotta say, the applause grew louder and stayed that way for quite a bit longer than I expected,91Ƶ he writes.

Selleck bet on himself throughout his career, turning down a steady gig on 91ƵYoung and the Restless91Ƶ and showing up for work on the 1979 TV miniseries 91ƵThe Sacketts91Ƶ even though the director made a point of saying he didn91Ƶt want him.

91ƵI91Ƶm most proud that I, as a person, was willing to take risks. They didn91Ƶt always pay off, but many times they did,91Ƶ he says. 91ƵRisk is the price you pay for opportunity itself.91Ƶ

Portraits of other stars also make appearances, like Carol Burnett, Princess Diana and Frank Sinatra, whose last acting job was on 91ƵMagnum, P.I.91Ƶ and who showed off his temper as well as his acting chops while navigating a colostomy bag.

Fans of 91ƵBlue Bloods91Ƶ have to wait for the last few pages to discover that Selleck initially fought for it to be a character-driven show and not a procedural, as the pilot had been. He won and the show is in its 14th season. He writes 91ƵI can91Ƶt be that lucky twice.91Ƶ

Selleck writes that he approached his career as a bricklayer, making sure each role was done with the highest quality and then moving on to the next. If that meant pushing back on scripts or budgets, so be it.

91ƵJust showing up and getting a paycheck wasn91Ƶt my idea of the work,91Ƶ he says. 91ƵI tried to always do it in a businesslike way. You know, not throw tantrums and throw scripts against the wall.91Ƶ

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