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A B.C. waitress91Ƶs life-changing encounter with 91Ƶwealthy91Ƶ con artist

Glenda Toews wrote 91ƵSpinning on a Barstool91Ƶ after losing tens of thousands of dollars in alleged fraud
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Glenda Toews, seen here at Corky91Ƶs Irish Pub in Chilliwack, wrote 91ƵSpinning on a Barstool91Ƶ after she was allegedly scammed $60,000 by a con artist. (Jenna Hauck/ Chilliwack Progress)

EDITOR91ƵS NOTE: This story mentions suicide.

A Chilliwack waitress has penned a true story about meeting the 91Ƶwealthiest man in the world.91Ƶ

91ƵI don91Ƶt advertise it as what the book is about because the story is so spectacular and the ending just hits you in the face,91Ƶ said Glenda Toews. 91ƵAt the end of the day, it was a huge scam.91Ƶ

She wrote Spinning on a Barstool after losing tens of thousands of dollars in an alleged fraud.

Glenda has worked at Corky91Ƶs Irish Pub in Chilliwack for 14 years and it was there that she met Daryl Schmidt during the pandemic, back in August 2020, when he stepped into the pub for some drinks.

91ƵHe was unassuming. He didn91Ƶt wear jewelry, he wasn91Ƶt flashy, he was very clean.91Ƶ

He started coming into Corky91Ƶs daily and Glenda got to know him better as the months went on.

He said he was from the Cayman Islands and he was married to a Canadian woman. They couldn91Ƶt fly back to the Cayman Islands because of COVID restrictions. Daryl said he started the very first Cactus Club, owned casinos all over the world, and was the owner of the Los Angeles Chargers football team and SoFi Stadium. He said he owned Google, MGM in Vegas, and recently bought Amazon.

But, if anyone googled his name, it would come up blank.

No one would find information on him because 91Ƶhis security wipes everything,91Ƶ she recalled him saying to her.

91ƵHe said, 91ƵWe let people 91Ƶ like Elon Musk and Bill Gates 91Ƶ be the centre stage. The real wealth, it lies beneath them. The world thinks they are, but the real wealth, they stay away from the spotlight,91Ƶ91Ƶ she said. 91ƵIt was quite intriguing.91Ƶ

He would go into in-depth details about his stories, keeping everything consistent.

91ƵHe91Ƶs not stupid. He91Ƶs actually very brilliant.91Ƶ

Daryl and Glenda became very good friends 91Ƶ he and his wife would hang out regularly with Glenda and her husband. Later, Glenda would even call Daryl her best friend.

About three to four months in, Daryl offered Glenda a chance to invest in hedge funds.

She started by giving him a few thousand dollars 91Ƶ it was her tip money, her 91Ƶrainy day91Ƶ money. Some of the money she invested was for herself, but most of it was for friends and family members. The plan was to leave the money for a year and then surprise those people later.

91ƵI thought if I lose it, it91Ƶs not a big deal.91Ƶ

The beginning of the Foundation of Hope

More months passed when Daryl and Glenda started talking about doing good in the community and also in Ukraine and Germany, where Glenda91Ƶs two daughters live. They were going to help the homeless in Chilliwack, offer aid to Ukrainian grandmothers who had been abandoned, and help less-fortunate people in Germany.

She called it Foundation of Hope. Daryl, Glenda and others all put in money to launch it.

Daryl led her to believe everything was in the works as the months went on. But there were delays. Daryl decided to divorce his wife who was apparently stealing millions from him. Then his father died, and then his mom died.

He91Ƶd use local news stories and world headlines to his advantage, weaving them into his stories.

In November 2021, there were problems getting bank cards mailed out because roads were closed due to flooding and snow storms. He claimed the reason for other delays in starting up the two charities in Europe had to do with world events, like Russia invading Ukraine and an election in Germany.

It was just a coincidence that the two charities happened to be connected to countries making headlines.

91ƵThe universe fit beautifully,91Ƶ she said.

She kept investing and waiting, investing and waiting. Over the months, it ballooned from giving him a few thousand dollars to tens of thousands of dollars.

91ƵYou91Ƶre up and down with emotions because you91Ƶre like, 91ƵReally? Another delay, another delay, another delay?91Ƶ And then you91Ƶre wondering if it91Ƶs true.91Ƶ

One day a friend messaged Glenda with a link to a about a convicted fraudster named Daryl Heiligsetzer. According to the Herald, Heiligsetzer went to prison in 2005 for committing a $1.5-million investment fraud, and then was out on parole in 2015 when he was alleged to have committed a similar scam, duping approximately 45 investors of more than $400,000.

She looked closely at the photo under the headline. It was an image of a younger Daryl.

Daryl Schmidt was Daryl Heiligsetzer.

91ƵFirst, I was relieved because it was true. For a year and a half, it was like this hope dangling and you91Ƶre never getting it.91Ƶ

Then she started wondering what the bigger picture was. What else was he planning on doing? Was he going to hack her bank accounts?

Glenda was paranoid for about two months as she put alerts on social insurance numbers and changed bank account numbers.

She went to RCMP, they opened up a file, but she claimed police said there wasn91Ƶt much they could do.

91ƵW󲹳 can I do then?91Ƶ she recalled asking an officer. 91ƵHe said, 91ƵYou can tell your story.91Ƶ So, here I am. I wrote the book.91Ƶ

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Glenda Toews wrote 91ƵSpinning on a Barstool91Ƶ after she was allegedly scammed $60,000 by a con artist. (Jenna Hauck/ Chilliwack Progress)

Spinning on a Barstool is all about Daryl91Ƶs stories and Glenda91Ƶs ups and downs of waiting. Emails have been printed word for word in the book.

In the end, after being involved in a scam that lasted a year and a half, Glenda lost roughly $60,000.

She admits she had some dark thoughts.

91ƵWhen you hear of people being scammed big and they kill themselves, I get it. It91Ƶs got nothing to do with the money. It really comes down to complete and utter humiliation.

91ƵWhen a person falls for something like that, you (hear) all those voices of every insecurity you ever had in your life,91Ƶ she said, choking back tears. 91ƵYou brought so much hope to people, to your kids, and you have to go and say, 91ƵNo, none of that91Ƶs happening.91Ƶ91Ƶ

Insp. Jeff Bowerman confirmed Chilliwack RCMP did conduct an investigation into Glenda91Ƶs file.

91ƵAny criminal fraud reported to the police is investigated,91Ƶ he stated in an email to The Chilliwack Progress. 91ƵThis investigation is currently closed and should new information be received can be re-opened.91Ƶ

He could not comment on the details of the investigation.

Spinning back to a good cause

Glenda says she wrote Spinning on a Barstool for a few reasons.

91ƵI really wanted it in every pub and restaurant in all of B.C. and moving through Canada 91Ƶ so that people are aware that the person that91Ƶs sitting beside them could be Daryl.91Ƶ

He has also used the name Daryl Smythe, Glenda added.

Secondly, she91Ƶs hoping she can do some good with book sales by raising money for the three charities they had planned to start under Foundation of Hope.

Seventy per cent from each book purchase will go to Foundation of Hope while the other 30 per cent will help Glenda recoup her bad investment.

People can purchase Spinning on a Barstool by Glenda Toews for about $24 at various locations online. For more info, go to or email info@glendatoews.com.

The Chilliwack Progress attempted to contact Daryl via email and two phone numbers. There was no reply to the email, and one phone number was no longer in service. When the reporter called the second phone number and asked if she was speaking with Daryl, the man who answered said: 91ƵNo, sorry you91Ƶve got the wrong number. I think I91Ƶve got his old phone.91Ƶ

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