ANGP?
It means All Night Grad Party. I know, I know, you don91裸聊视频檛 need a lecture about safety, drinking, drugs, or making smart choices. After all, you91裸聊视频檙e a senior and about to graduate 91裸聊视频� you know it all.
I also know that every year a parent is met at the door by a police officer and told that their graduating teen is dead or injured because of an accident at some bush party or a choice made to get behind the wheel drunk or stoned. There91裸聊视频檚 also the lifetime sentences caused by alcohol/drug-fueled sexual assaults, permanent disfigurement from a crash, fights, or humiliation through video and social media.
Take a second, stop and think. Don91裸聊视频檛 get so caught up in the build-up and 91裸聊视频渢radition91裸聊视频� of all night parties that you lose perspective that you91裸聊视频檙e graduating so you can start a new life, not end it.
I91裸聊视频檓 not saying that you can91裸聊视频檛 party. That91裸聊视频檇 be unrealistic just make sure you do some planning and be smart. So, here91裸聊视频檚 a checklist for you.
1. Know who you91裸聊视频檙e with. That sound so simple and straightforward, but you91裸聊视频檇 be surprised how many young people will get into cars with a group of strangers all because there91裸聊视频檚 a common theme of 91裸聊视频榩arty.91裸聊视频� Stick with your friends and make a decision together to stay that way. Keep an eye on each other. That91裸聊视频檚 what friends do.
2. Know where you are. Again, this sounds so simple, but if you91裸聊视频檙e going to a bush party in the middle of nowhere, for example, the roads all look the same at night and you could easily get lost. Do you have enough gas in the car? Also, will you still have cell service?If you91裸聊视频檙e out of range then it91裸聊视频檚 even more important to pay attention to point No. 1.
3. Know who your designated driver is. Every time you go out you need a designated driver. If you have a group of friends then you can rotate and switch it up. If you91裸聊视频檙e in town, make sure you have someone to call. I don91裸聊视频檛 care if it91裸聊视频檚 the third cousin of your best friends brother in law 91裸聊视频� have someone reliable and mature enough to pick you up if trouble surfaces.
Note to parents/aunties/friends: If you have an agreement with a young person to call you (no matter what time or circumstance) to pick them up, then just do it. Don91裸聊视频檛 lecture or judge or ground because believe me, next time they won91裸聊视频檛 call.
4. 91裸聊视频淣o91裸聊视频� means no. That goes for everyone 91裸聊视频� male, female or otherwise.
5. Drugs, to me, are a loud resounding no. If you91裸聊视频檙e at a party, you need to know what91裸聊视频檚 going on around you and not be so hammered that you can91裸聊视频檛 see straight. With so many pills, and even marijuana, being laced with fentanyl, it could be the end. That would really suck.
6. Are you going to the ANGP to be part of the crowd or because you want to? The parties aren91裸聊视频檛 mandatory and are not a rite of passage. They91裸聊视频檙e a reason to get drunk, act stupid, and make an ass of yourself. Think about it.
7. Don91裸聊视频檛 forget it91裸聊视频檒l all be recorded for prosperity. Do you want your boss to see you passed out? Or your auntie to see you naked and running through the fields. Umm, I hope your answer is no 91裸聊视频� 91裸聊视频檔uf said.
8. Find an alternative to the ANGP. Grad committees did this by adding in and supporting Dry Grad. There are many ways to celebrate and have fun with your friends without getting wasted and putting yourself (and possibly others), in harm91裸聊视频檚 way.
9. Don91裸聊视频檛 be a statistic. You don91裸聊视频檛 want to be that roadside memorial tribute with the fake flowers and half filled balloon flopping in the wind. A dead teenager kills all their potential. Get it?
10. Last, but definitely not least have some respect for yourself and others. Stop and think about how your actions, words, and choices are a reflection of who you are and how they can affect another.
Have fun, but be safe.
Faye Arcand is a freelance columnist living in the South Okanagan.
