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In today91裸聊视频檚 minor hockey leagues, why do parents mistreat officials and players?
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^Canadians are passionate about their hockey.

But sometimes parents of young children can take their passion for hockey too far, yelling at referees and players, behaving in an inappropriate manner.

In light of recent incidents across B.C. and the wrapping up of the hockey season, the Capital News asked members of the Kelowna Minor Hockey Association why they think some parents behave inappropriately during hockey games.

Head coach of the association Quintin Laing said there91裸聊视频檚 a connection to the game for parents, but he hasn91裸聊视频檛 had to ask a parent to leave or had any incidents in his year as a coach.

91裸聊视频淚t91裸聊视频檚 where you91裸聊视频檙e born. You91裸聊视频檙e from Canada, you91裸聊视频檙e passionate about the game. I think it91裸聊视频檚 just a feeling that comes out when we91裸聊视频檙e watching the game,91裸聊视频 he said, noting that most parents offer positive encouragement.

Overall, Kelowna Minor Hockey association referees agree that bad parent behaviour is not an issue in Kelowna, but they have a few ideas on why parents take things too far.

For the 2016-2017 hockey season, head referee Gord Hynes said about six parents had to be asked to leave the stands, out of around 1,300 games in a season.

He91裸聊视频檚 been called every name in the book as an official, but verbal abuse is not limited to hockey. Hynes said he sees yelling and abuse towards officials in other sports as well and added social media has made it more noticeable with hockey.

Dedicated referee Kelly McKenzie who comes from Edmonton, has been an official for 23 years and has had experiences of parents who take cheering too far.

91裸聊视频淚t91裸聊视频檚 parents I think living vicariously through their kids. They see their kids as their meal ticket,91裸聊视频 he said.

Hockey is an expensive sport. In minor hockey, parents spend $400 to $500 to play recreational hockey and between $700 to $900 for rep in registration fees. The price does not include travel expenses and accommodations. To join a hockey academy, it typically costs more than $30,000 a season per player.

The chances of becoming an NHL legend are slim, however. Since the turn of the century, only two members from the Central Okanagan, Josh Gorges and Justin Schultz played in the NHL.

Dave 91裸聊视频淢ac91裸聊视频 McClellan has been involved with the Kelowna Minor Hockey Association since 1978 and he believes parents become more invested in children because of how expensive hockey is as well as the lack of accountability with players and parents, who don91裸聊视频檛 want to take responsibility for their actions.

The most verbal parents, McClellan finds in Tiers 2 and 3.

91裸聊视频淚 don91裸聊视频檛 think they recognize how small of a fish they are,91裸聊视频 he said.

The officials say coaches are responsible for controlling the game, not the referees.

91裸聊视频淭he coach is the guy that manages the game,91裸聊视频 said McClellan. 91裸聊视频淲e are only there to access the game. Their responsibility of the game is a lot greater than ours.91裸聊视频

Less friction between parents and coaches lies with proper training of young officials.

The hockey association has introduced headsets to allow experienced officials to guide young refs through a game.

91裸聊视频淚 definitely agree with the referees that you talked to. It is up to the coach to control the game, not the ref. Coaches must hold their players accountable for their actions on the ice,91裸聊视频 said Laing. 91裸聊视频淯sually, if a coach is calm and well mannered behind the bench, his or her players will behave that way on the ice. When a coach becomes too loud and emotional behind the bench that91裸聊视频檚 when control of the game is usually lost. Hockey is a very emotional game but it is up to the coach to control his or her emotions and that will help with control of the game.91裸聊视频

As a parent and a coach Diano Zol agrees with Laing, saying he hasn91裸聊视频檛 seen a lot of bad behaviour from parents and says he thinks it91裸聊视频檚 more prominent with hockey because it91裸聊视频檚 the country91裸聊视频檚 national sport.

91裸聊视频淎 lot of it is dreams of kids making it to higher levels,91裸聊视频 he said.

The Kelowna Minor Hockey Association lists on its website a code of conduct which is to be expected from parents.





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