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91ƵIt91Ƶs crushed my will to live91Ƶ: Mom grieves after teen son fatally stabbed on Surrey bus

Teen died in hospital after he was fatally stabbed April 11 while riding a bus in the 9900-block of King George Boulevard
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(Ethan Bespflug/ Facebook)

Holly Indridson, 38, has joined a club nobody wants to belong to.

She91Ƶs yet another parent who91Ƶs lost a beloved child to mindless violence in Surrey.

91ƵI91Ƶve been through so many losses and this one, it91Ƶs crushed my will to live but I have to live, you know,91Ƶ she says, less than three days after her 17-year-old son, Ethan Bespflug, died in hospital after being fatally stabbed April 11 while riding a bus in the 9900-block of King George Boulevard.

Before Tuesday night, when he texted that he was scared and threatened by other passengers, Ethan had never complained about riding bus or SkyTrain.

91ƵHim and his friend would take the bus and SkyTrain, they91Ƶd take it downtown, they91Ƶd go to Brentwood Mall, they91Ƶd go to Metrotown, they utilized it so they could explore their surroundings and their world you know, as teenagers would. I don91Ƶt think at any time he felt unsafe and for this to happen on the bus91Ƶ,91Ƶ Indridson, an Abbotsford resident, trails off.

Authorities from Premier David Eby on down have expressed outrage at her son91Ƶs homicide and have promised enhanced police patrols on public transit in its wake.

91ƵI91Ƶm hoping that they can put more security,91Ƶ Indridson says of this. 91ƵWhen I was younger, there was a security guard or a transit police on the bus itself, when I was like 17.

91ƵI thought there would be a lot more,91Ƶ she says.

TransLink CEO Kevin Quinn vented about the crime during an in Surrey on Friday,

91ƵI91Ƶm angry, we91Ƶre really angry, I91Ƶm very frustrated, I91Ƶm bothered by these events and as a parent of two transit-riding kids, every single day, I am concerned,91Ƶ he said. 91ƵWe will not allow criminals or those who want to commit crimes to come onto our system.91Ƶ

91ƵI91Ƶll say as a father, I will say I was particularly shocked regarding the fatal stabbing of a teenager aboard one of our buses and our sincere condolences are with that young man91Ƶs family,91Ƶ Quinn said.

91ƵOur Transit Police have already stepped up patrols in crime hot spots and the forthcoming 24 community safety officers will allow police to further focus their efforts on criminal activity. We91Ƶre always looking for new ways to improve safety on transit and I want to emphasize that if anyone feels unsafe on our system they should immediately text Transit Police at any time at 87-7777.91Ƶ

Indridson says two GoFundMe campaigns will help her surviving children and help put Ethan to rest. By Friday afternoon, by her sister-in-law Andrea Van Der Gracht had already raised $19,485 dollars another aunt, Daphni Miller, had by Friday afternoon raised $16,931.

91ƵThe outpouring of support and just people that are messaging me that are just, I don91Ƶt know them, but other mothers that are messaging me, the family, the friends, people I haven91Ƶt talked to since high school, it91Ƶs just amazing how communities come together but I just wish it wasn91Ƶt under these circumstances,91Ƶ Indridson says. 91ƵI can feel it and I know Ethan is smiling down because that it91Ƶs what he would want in this type of situation, for his family not to feel alone and feel love and support.91Ƶ

Her younger children 91Ƶare devastated.

91ƵMy kids were all very close, they got along well, there91Ƶs very large age gaps between some of them. They connected in such a way that to me it was magical watching them together and Ethan was the largest piece of the puzzle.91Ƶ

Homicide detectives are in contact with her.

At this time of writing a suspect had not been identified.

91ƵThey91Ƶre trying to not overwhelm me,91Ƶ she says of police. 91ƵI91Ƶve asked everyone to not tell me anything because I cannot handle it, you know. So they came over and they told me it91Ƶs going well. That91Ƶs all, for me, that I can take at this time because I don91Ƶt want it to be real. I91Ƶm in shock.91Ƶ



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