A high-profile Penticton man whose life tragically ended on the weekend is a stark reminder of the need for dialogue on mental illness, according to organizers of an upcoming memorial event.

Amanda Lysohirka and her husband, Chad, are organizing the Mental Health Burger and Ball for Jeremy, Mare and Thomas, after Jeremy McGoran, a former radio personality and mental health awareness advocate, was found dead on Friday after going missing earlier that day.

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Over the years McGoran had been an advocate to bring awareness to mental health issues through the local Ride Don91裸聊视频檛 Hide event, which is scheduled for June 25 in Penticton. In April, McGoran told the Penticton Western News the more he learned about mental illness the more he wanted to share his own story to show others you don91裸聊视频檛 have to suffer in silence and to help reduce the stigma associated with it.

While Amanda had that common ground with McGoran, he and Chad had their own shared interests: sports.

91裸聊视频淗e understood a lot of references, especially from 1990s baseball, that I was probably the only person possibly in Penticton, even British Columbia that would understand what he was saying,91裸聊视频� Chad said.

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At a Monday evening slopitch game, the team91裸聊视频檚 first since McGoran passed, those two interests intersected, with Amanda suggesting the team wear green ribbons, the symbol for mental health awareness. That idea, Amanda said, took off with the team, who all wore the green ribbons through the game.

From there, the team wanted to do more to commemorate McGoran and the issue of mental health awareness.

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Since conception, Amanda says the idea has blown up, and continued to expand, with more and more people looking to get involved.

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This year was McGoran91裸聊视频檚 first playing with the team, and Amanda said he had been a strong player, who helped keep the team feeling positive.

91裸聊视频淗e was just an all-star out in the field, he was able to catch everything, he91裸聊视频檇 rip his pants every chance he91裸聊视频檇 get sliding into bases,91裸聊视频� she said. 91裸聊视频淗e was always a smiling, happy guy. Always kept the team spirit up.91裸聊视频�

Chad developed a friendship with McGoran through the slopitch team, and the two bonded over obscure sports trivia from decades ago.

Chad said he91裸聊视频檇 been at McGoran91裸聊视频檚 house only two days prior to his death, noting that McGoran had been telling him stories 91裸聊视频� something he was particularly good at.

91裸聊视频淚t was very hard to see how fast 48 hours can go. It was terrible. It was horrible, it was not fun. He was quite easy to get a hold of on Facebook, and then suddenly he just kind of stopped going online, and that91裸聊视频檚 when you kind of got the vibe that something wasn91裸聊视频檛 right,91裸聊视频� he said.

91裸聊视频淲e had plans to watch the hockey game together the following day, and it was a little bit unsettling watching the game at home versus at his house, or with his family. It was certainly a different feeling.91裸聊视频�

South Okanagan Similkameen Mental Wellness Society president Sharon Evans said some key questions often come up after a suicide.

91裸聊视频淲hat did I miss, what could I have done differently, why didn91裸聊视频檛 we understand that this person was at that point?91裸聊视频� Evans said. 91裸聊视频淪ometimes they reach the point where they don91裸聊视频檛 even have the words left to tell you. Or they91裸聊视频檝e made up their mind, and they91裸聊视频檙e just waiting for you not to be there.91裸聊视频�

For Evans, the key point, now, is to remind people who suffer from mental illness, and those with family members with mental illness, is that help is available.

91裸聊视频淲hat people need, family members need to have education and support so that they can help the person, and more importantly help themselves to understand what the person is experiencing,91裸聊视频� Evans said, noting that the Mental Wellness Society has programming for that.

Evans also points to programming in place for peer support, which includes one-on-one work and peer groups, for those with experience dealing with mental illness to help others.

But foremost, Evans says those who suffer from mental illness need to go to their family doctor.

91裸聊视频淎nd don91裸聊视频檛 believe that it91裸聊视频檚 going to go away,91裸聊视频� Evans said. 91裸聊视频淲e91裸聊视频檙e in the process of reminding all the doctors of our existence and that we91裸聊视频檙e available to the best of our collective abilities to reach out to people. And nobody gets turned down.91裸聊视频�

A memorial service will take place for the public at the Penticton Trade and Convention Centre before the fundraiser on June 19. The memorial service starts at 2 p.m. The Mental Health Burger and Ball game will start at 8 p.m., also on June 19, at Lion91裸聊视频檚 Park, with barbecued burgers and refreshments to be served by donation starting at 6 p.m.

Proceeds from the event will be going toward McGoran91裸聊视频檚 wife, Mare, and their six-year-old son, Thomas.