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B.C. woman with heart condition verbally accosted over disabled parking stall

91ƵI just burst into tears91Ƶ I mean, I was just shaking91Ƶ
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Kim Cooper, 53, stands next to her vehicle with a disabled parking pass permit on Wednesday, April 28, in Parksville. (Mandy Moraes photo)

Not judging someone based on their appearance is a lesson commonly taught to children 91Ƶ and one a Parksville woman wants members of the community to remember.

On Wednesday (April 28) Kim Cooper, 53, pulled into a designated disability stall at a Parksville parking lot when a woman began to aggressively yell at her.

91ƵI wasn91Ƶt even completely parked, my sign was on my dash where it always is. And I opened my door and said 91Ƶare you yelling at me?91Ƶ And she said 91Ƶyes, where91Ƶs your handicap sign?91Ƶ And I went 91Ƶit91Ƶs on my dash.91Ƶ And she just kept going on and on and on.91Ƶ

Cooper survived a heart attack approximately 10 years ago and has lived with congestive heart failure ever since, a chronic and progressive condition that affects the pumping power of her heart. Living with such a condition can leave her winded while walking long distances, which can stress her heart and further exacerbate her condition.

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Due to the nature of her condition, she has a disabled parking permit that allows her to park in the designated stalls near a building91Ƶs entrance.

91ƵI was going to the dry cleaners, and she91Ƶs complaining about me in Bosley91Ƶs, and I went to open the door at the dry cleaners and she attacked me again.91Ƶ

While still visibly distraught, the co-owner of Bosley91Ƶs by Pet Valu, Brianne Carson, approached Cooper and offered to walk her back to her vehicle.

91ƵAnd I just burst into tears. She probably spent 35 minutes with me. I mean, I was just shaking,91Ƶ said Cooper. 91ƵAnd it91Ƶs not right. I think we need to address the situation that 91Ƶhey, not everybody has a visible handicap91Ƶ.91Ƶ

91ƵTo judge someone based on what we see is something we teach our children not to do, so as adults we shouldn91Ƶt be doing that either,91Ƶ said Carson.

The chair for the , Sandra Hobson, said while experiences like Cooper91Ƶs are uncommon, they are not unheard of.

91ƵThere are certainly instances where somebody who has a has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, or a heart condition - they may not be able to walk the length of the parking lot. And they need those accessible spaces,91Ƶ she said.

91ƵIt could also just be someone who91Ƶs really sick, or they91Ƶre recovering from a surgery. Even if it91Ƶs temporary, it might not be visible but it still is genuine.91Ƶ

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Hobson said that while we think we91Ƶre not an ableist society, many instances show we are. Such a mentality may cause people with genuine disabilities hesitate to claim the services they require, simply so they91Ƶre not seen as playing the system.

91ƵThe more stigma there is, the less people are likely to claim very necessary services,91Ƶ she said, noting such behaviour can injure a person91Ƶs self-esteem and cause them to feel further devalued.

As identified by , the organization to manage B.C.91Ƶs Parking Permit Program, someone who needs to park close to a building entrance because their health prevents them from walking far would qualify them for a parking pass permit. On their website it states that a parking pass permit for people with disabilities ensures that a person with mobility limitations can park in one of the designated parking stalls throughout British Columbia.

As per their application form, all applications require a referral from the applicant91Ƶs doctor.

mandy.moraes@pqbnews.com

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Mandy Moraes

About the Author: Mandy Moraes

I joined Black Press Media in 2020 as a multimedia reporter for the Parksville Qualicum Beach News, and transferred to the News Bulletin in 2022
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