My husband and I have been dealing with our beloved dog Jake and his aging body suffering the decline that can come with aging.

A sudden rupture of his anterior cruciate ligament in his right knee have had us going to the vet, working to deal with the pain of this development and wondering what is the best plan of action.

Selling our house in five days, learning I am expecting my first grandchild and dealing with the loss of a dear client have rounded out the week.

With such a mix of emotions, it is not surprising I have wanted to just take to my bed and let myself absorb it all.

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This circle of life that is ever present, the ebb and flow of birth and death seemingly happening on a continuous basis, causes me to want to withdraw when it becomes overwhelming.

Loss can be an initiator of wanting to close your heart to further pain. Anticipatory change can do the same thing. Feeling the need to make a shift, a course adjustment often presents as life unfolds in unexpected ways. The gift of aging is making room for the joys of becoming a grandparent, taking in the beauty of a sunrise, giving the extra love and care to someone you love as they come to the end of their life.

Feeling the need to slow down to smell the roses is something I came face to face with when my Mom became very ill and I brought her into our home to live.  Having to face the fact that, of late I seem to have accelerated my life up to warp speed again and it is coming home to roost for some contemplation.

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I send her a gift of support for her walk and invite you to do the same.

Please email me at marjorie@caresmart.ca and I will forward you the information for her donation page to support this incredibly brave and wonderful person to reach her goal of $2,000.

I know, together, we can help her achieve that.

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Generosity to yourself is equally as important as giving to others.  When we are treading on burnout, something I spoke of for caregivers a couple of columns back, taking time for yourself becomes imperative.

I have to look into my own mirror also and know when to take a break.

So booking a week off it is for me.

I begin my movement toward that by breathing into the overwhelm I feel this week and just receiving it, then sending generosity to my friend and to others as I breathe out from my heart.

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